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🌿 Vigil Planning & Death Doula Support
When the Time Comes, You Don’t Have to Do It Alone.
There’s a moment near the end — when everything slows down, when words don’t come easily, and when presence matters more than anything. That’s what a vigil is: time spent sitting with someone during their final days or hours, often when death is near or actively happening.
A vigil can be quiet or filled with music, prayer, storytelling, or just silence. It’s about offering comfort, honoring the moment, and supporting the person who is dying — and the people around them — with calm and care.
Vigil planning helps create clarity and comfort — so the final moments feel supported, not rushed or uncertain. Whether you’re preparing ahead or walking through it now, I’ll help you shape a meaningful plan — or be there to help carry it out with steady, compassionate support.
✍️ What We’ll Plan or Support
Vigil planning is shaped by your values, beliefs, and emotional needs. Some people want stillness and quiet. Others want music, ritual, or prayer. There’s no right way — just what feels right to you and your loved ones.
Together, we may explore:
What kind of presence and atmosphere feels most comforting
Who should be there — and what roles they might take
Whether you'd like music, candles, readings, prayers, silence, or a mix
What words or actions would be meaningful — and what to avoid
Any rituals, transitions, or traditions you'd like to include (spiritual, cultural, or personal)
How to prepare family and friends emotionally or practically for what’s ahead
If you choose, I can also be present during the vigil to help carry out the plan with steadiness and compassion — so no one has to manage it alone.
📄 What You’ll Walk Away With
Vigil planning can ease anxiety — not just for the person nearing death, but for the family and friends who want to do right by them. After our session, you’ll have a clear, personalized plan to help guide those final moments with calm, confidence, and compassion.
You’ll receive:
A gentle, personalized Vigil Plan Summary (PDF or mailed copy), outlining key details in a format that’s easy to follow and share
Clarity around who will be involved, what will happen, and how the space will be held — so no one is left wondering what to do
Thoughtful suggestions for music, readings, rituals, or symbolic gestures that align with your values or wishes
An optional Family Prep Guide, designed to help loved ones understand what to expect and how to show up with grace
The option for in-person or virtual vigil support if you’d like help carrying out the plan when the time comes
This is not about having all the answers — it’s about creating comfort, readiness, and a plan that honors what matters most.
🕊️ Investment & What’s Included
Being present at the end of life is some of the most vulnerable and human work we do. I’m here to ease the unknowns and support you — before, during, or after the final moments.
Vigil Planning Session — $125
A 90-minute session to create a personalized plan for the final days or hours.
Includes:
A guided conversation to create your vigil plan
A Vigil Plan Summary (PDF or mailed copy)
Suggestions for music, rituals, or comfort items
Optional prompts, checklists, or a Family Prep Guide
Light follow-up for clarification or updates
Need more time? Add 30 minutes for $35
Recommended if involving multiple family members or care providers
Vigil Support — starting at $200
In-person or virtual presence during the final days or active dying.
Includes:
Calm, supportive presence at the bedside
Gentle coordination of the vigil plan
Emotional support for family, caregivers, and the dying person
Basic guidance on what to expect as the end approaches
After-death support options if requested
Final pricing depends on location, travel, and length of visit — contact me for a custom quote.
Optional Family Meeting or Prep Session — $65
Support for family members or close friends who want help preparing emotionally and practically.
Includes:
45–60 minute meeting (virtual or in person)
Tips for showing up in ways that feel supportive and respectful
Space for questions, fears, and emotional processing
Shared understanding of the vigil plan
✧ Ready to Begin?
You don’t have to figure it out alone. Whether you’re planning ahead or sitting at the bedside now, I’m here to walk with you through it — quietly, steadily, and with care.
FAQs for Vigil Planning & Death Doula Support
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❓What is a vigil?
A vigil is the time spent with someone during their final days or hours. It can include music, prayer, silence, storytelling, or simply being present. It’s a way to offer comfort and honor the moment — for the person who is dying and the people around them.
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❓Is this only for people who are actively dying?
No. You can create a vigil plan in advance — even if the end isn’t near yet. It’s also helpful for family members who want support preparing emotionally or practically for what’s ahead.
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❓Can you be present during the vigil?
Yes. I offer in-person or virtual vigil support, depending on your needs and location. I can be a calm presence, help guide the flow, or simply support those who are gathered.
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❓Can this include spiritual or cultural traditions?
Absolutely. Vigil planning is shaped entirely by your beliefs and preferences. We can incorporate meaningful rituals, symbols, or customs — or keep it simple and quiet.
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❓What if I don’t know what I want yet?
That’s okay. We’ll talk through your values, explore gentle options, and create a plan that feels right to you. You don’t need to have all the answers — just a willingness to explore.
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❓Can you help guide my family too?
Yes. I offer optional prep sessions for loved ones, so they know what to expect and feel more comfortable being part of the vigil when the time comes.